Marriage, Morality, and Modernity: An Islamic and Secular Perspective on Extra-Marital Relationships

Abstract

This paper explores the sacredness of marriage (Nikah) as a God ordained covenant enshrined in the Quran and analytically evaluates the current social phenomenon of extramarital relationships (EMRs). Based on the Quranic injunctions and the prophetic traditions, and classical jurisprudence, the study focuses on Nikah as a sacral relationship and a contractual relationship that protects chastity, provides companionship and maintains societal cohesiveness. The article also outlines the rights and responsibilities of the spouses according to the version of rights and responsibilities laid down by the Islamic law and points out the importance of mutual respect, affection, and mercy which are the main pillars to follow. It is in this context that EMRs are ranked as major infractions since in Islam, they are referred to as zina and have been considered as harmful to the morality of individuals and religious stability. The influence of EMRs in contemporary settings based on the psychological, cultural, and socio-economic factors, such as digital aspects, globalization, and the changes in the family structure, are also explored in the study. Relative lessons of secular and other religious perspectives also bring out the common understanding of marriage as a stabilizing system and repugnance towards infidelity. Through examining the interplay between the divine commandments and the modern-day challenges, the article reveals the importance and the need to strengthen the Islamic values, to strengthen the marriage institutions, and to face the new menace to the fidelity. It concludes, finally, that the sanctity of marriage is not a mere spiritual need, but also a critical measure towards upholding moral order, family and social cohesion amongst the Muslim circles.

Keywords: Marriage, Nikah, Allah (SWT), Extra-Marital Relationships, Zina, Islamic Law, Qur’an, Hadith, Family, Morality